You know relationship pain.
Online profile lies, misrepresentations, deceptions, cruelty and judgment by people you don't know. You've had enough.
Vulnerability.
You have been hurt in the past and in order to avoid the pain, you vow to do it different this time.
Close your heart.
Filter how much and when you share yourself.
Close down altogether.
What the hell do you reveal and what the hell do you hide?
You are afraid to try again and afraid not to. The definition of stuck.
How much or how little do you reveal of yourself when you start a new relationship?
What are your guidelines?
How staunch are your love boundaries?
Ready for new and next?
It's time to close your mind to confusion. Make room for new and connect to the emotional compass you have inside of you. Use your emotions to help you. All of them, they are your personal GPS.
It isn't easy, in fact it's hard work. Beyond difficult and so worth it.
You begin to listen. Inside.
Get quiet, turn off the noise and go off grid. Close your eyes to look within. Breathe until you relax. Melt. Visualize. Trust yourself, you have your answers.
Although you've been taught love is outside of yourself. Or that there is a magic formula. Or that someone knows better than you do.
Not true.
You know. Open up space in your thoughts to connect with your intuition, your wisdom and your heart. Stop disconnecting from your emotions, they are your guides. They provide information.
Align with what feels better.
Get still. Breathe in your own way. Listen to the one person who knows what you want and what is best for you. You.
Plug into the inner wisdom you have been taught to ignore. Revive your inner voice. If something feels wrong to you - run. If something feels nice - pursue it.
Forget what you should do, should sucks. Toss should and do what brings you joy. Now.
Ditch mind games. Unlearn social conditioning. Shift the rules.
Claim your relationship bliss.
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