Love: When the Problem is the Cure

In love relationships, bad break ups and/or unexpected endings are excruciatingly painful.

Soul crushingly devastating.

They hurt beyond words.

But you can find your way back to yourself in time. . . your time.

Go within. Grieve. Get the pain out. Pamper yourself. Give yourself space. Calibrate the right amount of time for you.

But don’t take too much time.

Don’t get down on all love. Don’t hate on love. Don’t become a professional love cynic. Don’t disconnect from the one thing in your world that will help you heal.

Love.

Who needs love?

You do, and here’s why:

So you can learn to use self-love to help yourself feel better.

So you can confront and then understand and finally embrace all of your emotions and feelings. Help yourself get skilled at reflecting on, learning from and liberating your emotions and feelings. Your emotions are your responses to things that happen outside of you. Your feelings are sourced within you.

So you can experience all of your feelings and emotions and gather the information they offer you. Use that information to choose to feel better. Align with more of your happiness.

So you can process your experiences. Find the meaning in them. Mend. Let your emotions and feelings go so they don’t block your body, stress you out and make you sick.

So you can heal up and go to your joy.

So you can connect with all love through your love.

So you can help others heal too.

So you can share your love in your way.

So you can be the love that you are at the center of your heart.

Vulnerable.

Real.

Raw.

Ready for more connection, inclusion, healing, liberation and always more love.

Love isn’t the obstacle; it is the way to more self-love, romantic love and collective love.

Love On.

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