Ready to Revisit Love?

You.

I see you everywhere and nowhere. Hell, I used to be you.

I notice you as you go about your day: at work, at the store and in traffic. I see you out and about. Surviving.

But something is missing. . . . 

Big Love.

I understand you don't want to give up on love but you've learned love hurts. It's crushed your heart. You want to try/not try love relationships again. The teeter totter is as confusing as it is exhausting.

I don't see you having a blast with all your relationships or your emotions. I don't see you loving full throttle. You wonder if it's worth your effort.

You are not thriving or firing on all your sparked cylinders. 

And that is why I am here.

For you. With you. My passion is to help you learn effective new ways to have the long lasting love relationship you dream of. To connect to more joy and love - your birthrights.

Remember this: It's not your fault. 

The old games, rules and generalizations you were taught simply don't work. Barely ever did. They cause extreme pain and separation. It's time to kick them to the curb and begin a new path to love today.

There is so much more for you. More hope, more ease and more love. 

If your are a doer and many areas of your life are going well for you except your love relationships. . . and you have tried time and time again to create relationships you are worthy of without success . . .If you know inside at a deep level there is much more love for you  . . .and you've learned to numb out your emotions that hurt . . .

THEN . . .hang on to your beating heart, you are in for a wild and exhilarating flight in Big Love. One Love. Your Love.

I am here to connect you with more love; so much more of what you crave. To help you listen to and honor your internal wisdom. To amplify and honor those intuitive whispers that remind you that you are so worthy of being loved. To create relationships you love in fresh ways you might not have considered. To have fun in love. 

How?  

Unlearn what you have learned that hurts.

The obstacle is the way and sometimes you need help seeing what keeps you stuck. I support you, provide accountability and help you reveal your love blind spots. Together we look at your concerns, fear, limiting beliefs and your habits, because if you knew how to change it up, you would have by now. I help you release what keeps you stuck and replace it with what feels much better. Unconditional love. 

Where do we start?

With those emotions you have been avoiding. Stuffing. Numbing out.

Your emotions are your key to connecting to more love now. They are your quiet guides brimming with information for you to live the love life you want. When you explore and understand the helpful information they give you, everything changes. 

You thrive. You live out loud and in all colors of the spectrum. You shine your love light. 

You stop judging yourself. You stop defending yourself. You draw on a internally sourced well of confidence that makes you rejection proof and naturally attractive. 

Sound good?

It's time to get loving.

Learn to let go of your blind spots and blocks during safe and sensitive weekly phone conversations. And unlike therapy, we don't revisit the past over and over again or work for years on what you want for yourself. You want new results now and I can help you deliver them faster and for less expense than you would get on your own. 

The next move is yours.

Check out more on my website: https://optimizedrelationships.com/optin
or pick a time to talk to me for your free phone coaching session that works for you here:  https://calendly.com/optimizedrelationships/lovecoaching
Open up space for new. New experiences, new adventures and new people. It's time for your new love. It takes hard work. And so does staying stuck. Surviving instead of thriving. 

The choice is yours. Choose love. 

Love on.






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