Okay. It’s time to burst another love fairytale
bubble. I must warn you this may be painful at first and then hopefully it will
be liberating.
Ready?
No human relationships last forever. None.
Ouch!
You know this on some level. Nobody is born at the
exact same time and nobody dies at the exact same time. Those are facts.
You come in with yourself and you leave with yourself.
So why not begin to love yourself?
Oh, I know. You have been told that you must love
everyone before you love yourself. Everyone is worthy of your love before you
are. And you wonder why love seems to hurt.
Enter oversweet romantic social conditioning. You have
been taught in subtle and obvious ways again and again that someone will swoop
in and rescue you, anticipate your every need and treat you like the perfect
diamond we all know you are.
Remember happily ever after?
What exactly is YOUR happily ever after? Do you want
to find and be completed by your other half? Do you want to love and be loved
forever? What is your love vision?
I am here to help you shift out of fairytale thinking
into what feels better. I help you clarify what you want in your relationships
and why. And then get it (yay!).
Think about it, fairy tales can be damaging and
destructive. They can encourage you to compare your love life to other people’s
love life and relationships. They might make you question your actions and your
life.
That does not feel good!
Will it feel better to stop missing a perfect romantic
partner and start living your life like only you can do? Or will it feel better
to stop feeling misunderstood by your partner and start understanding yourself
on a deep level? What does it feel like to trust yourself and know that you
have all the answers you need inside?
I am here to encourage you to step into more of your
power and strength to become responsible for your own emotions and actions. To
use them as guidance to choose to feel better. To know that you can handle and
adjust and change to what your life brings to you.
To connect with your core abilities and love.
This is empowerment. Genuine, beautiful, authentic
taking care of yourself because that is what you are here to do. Honest
strength and freedom.
So, if you ever have bought into the fairytales, the
toxic social conditioning or your friends and family’s well-meaning judgment or
your own judgment of you, STOP! Stop right now.
You can make a shift this instant. Or as soon as you
decide that you get to call the shots in your love life.
You are responsible for your own happily ever after. You get to create love how you want it!
Blend your amazing qualities and quirks to create and share
love as you see it. You can do it on
your own and take the long way, or you can use fresh strategies that work begin
working now. I can help. If you want to get more of this delicious way forward,
schedule a free 30 minute call with me here: https://calendly.com/optimizedrelationships/lovecoaching
Until we talk again-
Love On,
Risa
p.s. - Also have you checked out my free Face Book group? We have a lot of LOVELY fun in there…. It’s
called loveologists, check it here: : https://www.facebook.com/groups/1503456919702692/
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