Are You Waiting for Love?
To me, that is so funny.
Because you are love. You are loved, loving and loveable as you are
right in this minute.
Waiting for love is like waiting for life. You are living and loving
right now.
What’s that?
You are waiting for someone else to love you? Because you have been
taught that someone else will save, rescue and make life worth living for you?
Ah, yes. This is miserable waiting we have been taught to do. Am I
right?
It’s a waiting that takes the responsibility for us and our happiness
and gives it to another person or people.
Why have we been taught to do this?
Depending on another person to understand, accept and love us is an old
mindset that most of us have been taught. It is heartbreaking.
Have you been breaking your own heart? You can tell me, have you?
Have you been comparing yourself to other people and judging yourself?
Have you been harsh and down on yourself? Have you been focusing on what is
wrong?
Please stop it and start shifting your love mindset today. Start to
feel better.
The bad and good news is nobody is going to save you.
Bad news because society lies to you.
Good news because you are going to save you.
When one person in a relationship is responsible for most of the
financial, emotional or sexual heavy lifting, it throws the whole relationship
out of balance. It encourages distance, unclear communication and resentment.
Those are 3 devastating relationship cracks that disempower both
partners. Then we wonder why few partners seem to stay together.
It’s a tired story.
It’s not because someone is a “good” or “bad person” so much as it is
we are taught to look for relationships with unrealistic expectations.
Hoping someone will understand us before we have done the deep
self-work to understand our self is unlikely.
Stop hoping and switch your thoughts! Now.
Shift to doing your deep self-work to be the person you want to spend
time with. Be the person you are looking for.
Empowered, happy people are attractive.
See how this works?
It’s because you know on some deep level inside that you are worthy of
unconditional love.
Look for it inside. First.
It’s there waiting for you. You are loved, loving and loveable right as
you are in this minute.
Breathe this into every cell in your being.
Love On,
Risa Kelley
Optimized Relationships
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