Thursday, September 6, 2018

No More Holiday Blues For You





Summer fades.

We slide into fall.

And the painful memories and loneliness live on.



And on.



I had several messages over the holiday weekend from frustrated people who feel alone. People who are upset, embarrassed, broken hearted, confused and pissed.

Lonely.



I get it.

I used to feel that way too.

Because we aren’t taught how to have healthy love relationships.



You have been taught to think you must be in a love relationship to be happy.

You have been taught to search for your other half.

You feel something is wrong with aren’t with a partner.

Judged and incomplete.



Toxic social conditioning.



This has been society’s painful out dated truth.

But does it have to be your truth?

You can choose to think differently.

In an instant.



When you. . .



Open your mind and remember you are worthy of more.

Realize It doesn’t have to be this way.

Try new thoughts on.



It starts with you.

For you.



Unlearn what hurts.

Unlearn that something outside of yourself is the key to feeling fulfilled.

Unlearn that someone is coming to make your life better.



That person is you.

Hello new.



Learn how to connect with your authentic power and strength inside.

Learn to choose to move to more joy.

Learn that you are enough.



As you are right now.



The only time you are broken

Or need to be fixed

Is when you believe it.



Why believe it?



It’s not the truth of who you are.

Or you wouldn’t feel awful.



Choose to align with more of who you are and feel better fast.



Reach out.

Ask for help, I am here to help you.

Help you deliver your life the way you dream of it.



It’s within you now.

Switch it up.

Before more holidays.



Love On,

Risa Kelley

Optimized Relationships


p.s.- If you want more new perspectives, consider joining my free, safe, non-judgmental face book group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1503456919702692/

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