So Caught Up In You

Where do you go for love and relationships help?

Google? Social media? Friends? Family members? “Experts”?

We are taught to disconnect from our inner voice and seek information outside of ourselves

No wonder so many of us feel lost, are wandering, want more

Are you ready to flip this painful script?

Try something fresh?

Good

I know you are

Let’s start inside

Schedule daily quiet time for yourself

In the quiet, you can hear

Your inner voice

Your intuition

That is your inner wisdom

It may seem new, frustrating or quiet but

Inside is a very good place to start

The relationship you have with yourself is the most important relationship you have

Because the way you think of and treat yourself is the way you think of and treat everyone else in your life

Loved ones, pets and higher powers included

The way you love yourself is the way you love other people and teach them how to love you

Important stuff

Self-love is where all your relationships start

I know, I know

You have been taught that loving yourself is

Big Selfish

Not Humble

That everyone else is worthy of your time and help before you are

That help is on the way

If you try hard enough

And give selflessly to other people

Someone will love you

Is it working?

Didn’t work for me

When you give your all to others

You have nothing left to give to yourself

You end up feeling exhausted, depleted, unappreciated and worst of all unloved

And still you soldier on

With hope in your heart and no way of knowing how to bring that outside love inside

So that day after day

You feel further away from what you already have inside

Big Love

Seems so messed up

Have you had enough of this?

Love yourself

First

Make peace with all your emotions

Remember the light and the love you hold that never went away

Feel them? Way down deep inside?

Breathe into them

Reconnect with the love energy that connects you to all love energy

Fill your own tanks with compassion, care, laughter and love

So that you naturally overflow genuine compassion, care, laughter and love to others

With ease

Begin to love yourself unconditionally and

Notice fresh empowerment and

Authentic confidence

A natural attraction

To drink in more joy as you

See the world through loving eyes and

Hold space for everyone to do the same

Help create a new circle of real love

Now, not tomorrow

It starts in you

With you

For you

Ultimately for us

Love On,

Risa Kelley

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