Thursday, January 31, 2019

I'm So Moving On




It seems so cruel and



so many of my clients face this



that I want to shine light on it here



Call it catfishing, love scamming, what the hell else



It happens all the time in our social media world and it goes a little something like this:



You see someone on line you are attracted to, you strike up an on-line convo, you can’t believe the connection you have, you “talk” often in written messages, things move quickly as they say all the “right” things, you become (usually unknowingly) emotionally attached and



BOOM!



They need money just for a little while, they will pay you back double or



They need visa cards, I-tunes cards or other cash loaded cards or valuable items you can provide



Just temporarily and



They will come visit you soon to be together, but



They have (plausible to the emotionally attached you) reasons why they can’t talk to you on the phone or



On Facetime



Or why they can’t meet you face-to-face



And they question your feelings for them if you are even slightly curious about what is happening and they attempt to manipulate and control you through their anger, your shame or both



What a nasty fucking emotional cocktail



It wrecks people emotionally with guilt, embarrassment, grief, abandonment and anguish



My job is to listen to you without judgment about exactly what happened in this beyond devastating scamming scheme and provide insights to how it works and support you until you recover



And you heart is still attached to it all



If it’s happened to you, I hope it never happens to you again



If it hasn’t happened to you, make sure it doesn’t with this simple sentence:



It isn’t a relationship if you haven’t met face-to-face



Don’t let yourself become emotionally attached to someone you have never met, to a photo, to well spun love stories, to the idea of being in love or to anyone you haven’t seen and spoken with



IRL



Period.



Love On,

Risa Kelley

Optimized Relationships


p.s.- If you want support with your love scamming, message me here: https://m.me/RisaKelley or if you want to talk about it, get on the phone and schedule a free 30 minute call with me, click here: https://calendly.com/optimizedrelationships/lovecoaching

Photo by Priscilla Du Preez on Unsplash

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